How do we talk about issues that matter?

We, as a society, tend to forget that the exchange of ideas, opinions and perspectives is not only beneficial to the human society, but it is necessary. Yes, the importance of these conversations is discussed and even encouraged, but it truly being carried out is where we are flawed (I would argue that we are more scared). The issues and debates that never seem to enter the classroom are race, belonging or even the common good because of the tremendous amount of controversy, emotion and arguments that come along with them. Of course, there is nothing simple about education, especially teaching it, but it is foolish to bring division into the classroom due to the lack of knowledge and openness. Establishing clear guidelines or ground rules, modeling civil behavior, keeping the discussion tied to the material and moderating negative thinking or speaking for both you and your students will be the way for difficult conversations to become less difficult for everybody. The main idea that needs to be at the forefront when approaching these discussions is: civility cannot be represented without equity. Robert Jones Jr. once wrote, “we can disagree and still love each other unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist." Providing students with a genuine, inclusive and respectful space to speak their mind is significant for not only the classroom, but for the community as well. Listen, without interrupting. Commit to learning, not debating. Criticize ideas, not individuals. Don't be afraid of differences- growth stems from discomfort. There can't be empathy is there first is not understanding.